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The Secrets Every Man Wants to Know About Women
Women are rather fascinating don’t you think? They can be our greatest pleasure and also our greatest pain.
Women want to be lead by a man in life, if the women in your life are leading you and the relationship it is destined for failure. Women will continually test you and this is to ensure you that you are that man they want in their life and you don’t turn into a wuss.
Have you ever heard the word “Just Friends” or heard of someone who has this label? I know I am guilty of this, liking a girl so much and hanging around to find out there is no attraction there and to her we are “Just Friends”.
What about when you like a girl so much that if you don’t get what you want from her or she does not act the way you want her to you sabotage the relationship and all your insecurities and frustration come out and to find that the girl is gone, but you have never done this of course.
Women like to be surprised and experience spontaneous acts in their lives, have you ever surprised a woman you where attracted to, to find the attraction built and built? If a woman ever asks you “what do you want to do” never say “I don’t know, what do you think”, has this destroyed the attraction you had towards her.
Notice how when you seem to become comfortable the attraction dies between you and the female, so a rule of thumb is to never get comfortable in a relationship.
I used to seek approval from women thinking that if I gave them what it is they wanted, I would attract them and get what I wanted and boy I was wrong. Women are not logical so stop thinking they are.
You want to get the woman to be seeking your approval and you do this by having higher status and social status, by not giving your power away to her, by being a man.
To attract women you need to push those buttons inside of her and build attraction and as long as you are building attraction she will be seeking your approval and want more from you.
You must NOT go into a relationship to get something for yourself or an emotion to serve your needs, you must go into a relationship to give and what you give you get 10 folds back.
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Continue Reading »Knowledge is a Far Greater Asset for Women Than Brute Strength
Knowledge is power. This power is what makes women so perfect in the construction trades when complimented by our innate design skills and our attention to details. And when these are combined with utilizing youth to do the general labor tasks; and the availability of heavy equipment and industry tools to handle the movement and placement of large materials; there is nothing that we cannot do to compete in this male dominated world. Do you have to be in decent physical shape? Yes – but – you do not have to be in the running for the next Olympic Gold Metal female weight lifter? In fact, all you have to do is a few “drive bys” and take in the profiles of the burgermeisters wearing tool belts that populate most construction sites to gain an appreciation of the shape your competitors are in. The absolute Number One question I routinely am asked by women when they learn that I have worked as a carpenter and built 2 homes single handedly is, “Isn’t it hard?” It is all relative and totally dependent on how smart you are with your body. Frankly, sitting at a desk in a cubicle causes more discomfort to my back than building, but we are all different. You must also be able to delegate. If you try to do and control everything you can surely strain yourself and get hurt. There are many specialized tools to assist all workers to do the heavier tasks. For cryin’ out loud! The GUYS aren’t lifting those framed walls by themselves either! There are tools called “pump jacks” or “wall jacks” that are used to raise walls into place. What I am getting to here is encouraging women to find out what it takes. There are many sources and I have been meeting new women in the Trades everyday. There are organizations out there whose primary reason fro existing is to attract more women into construction, such as SistersInTheBuildingTrades.org; andWashingtonStateJobswithJustice.org. Maybe we can assimilate a list by asking all members of The Women’s Tool Shed to submit the organizations they know of that are in place to assist and inspire women to join the Trades. I will elaborate more in future blogs and articles about encouraging you to be brave and take action towards gaining the knowledge you need to GRAB YOUR OWN HAMMERS & SPLINTER THE PLYWOOD CEILING! The author, L.L. Burton, lives in beautiful coastal Northwest Washington State. She was born and raised in the State of Alaska, as had generations of her family before her. She grew up moving frequently between cities and outer villages due to her father’s work as a State Policeman. These were not pampered environments; in fact some areas were quite rugged.
This upbringing would serve her well later in life during her tasks in the cold, wet and sometimes harsh elements on various construction job sites.
She is primarily a self-taught carpenter, because pulling information out of fellow (male) co-workers was exhausting and unfulfilling. Her tenacity and inner confidence (well, some might call it blind naïveté) led to tackling entire projects. Yes, not just one – oh no! But TWO! Her total involvement spanned from concept and design; to construction from the ground up; including all phases (except for carpet installation and electrical. It is always wise to acknowledge ones’ limitations and fears).
Her intent now is to combine her unique view from the inside as a woman carpenter, with her skills as a Life Coach, and offer perspectives that one can only garner from experience. Trust me -You can’t MAKE this stuff up!
How to be Super Attractive to Women Even if You are Average Looking?
Copyright (c) 2007 Reece Clarkson
Ok so you are wondering how it is possible to be attractive to a woman when you are not the best looking or you associate yourself as not the best looking. Well let me tell you friend that it is possible, when you meet a women you get put into a category depending on your approach and how you convey yourself to the woman.
Unlike men who just go straight for looks in women and are more attracted to women because of their looks than her personality at the start women are on a better playing field than men. So if you are average looking and have a good personality you will go a long way with women because your personality my friend is much, much more powerful than you looks will ever be. Women do not choose to be attracted to you, it’s biological and in their blood that once you learn how to push those buttons they are unable to control themselves around you.
So if you are average looking you have no excuse for not attracting beautiful women because it can be done and has been done. Have you not gone out to the shopping centre or gone to a movie with a friend and seen extremely average looking guys with beautiful women? And I am also sure you ask the question of how is that possible, how can a guy like that get a woman like that.
When you learn how to push those buttons inside of a woman at the very start and you learn how to “attract women” and become that challenge they desire then you automatically go from being average looking to “hot.” You must learn how to be yourself around women and not go to get something from women but instead go out to have fun and enjoy yourself. You have heard this countless of times from female friends and even your mother to go out and just enjoy yourself don’t worry about women but yet for some reason we as men still do. When you are yourself towards women there is no need to impress her or seek her approval because you are being yourself and women are extremely attracted to this.
Women can tell the difference between a guy who “gets it” and a guy who is a complete wuss before you even open your mouth. It all comes down to your body language, how you hold yourself, your voice tone, what you are focusing on and more. All those little things that I thought never mattered to women actually do.
The biggest tips and advice that I can give you is to be yourself around women, don’t try impress women with where you work or what you do for a living, how much money you have, or what you have to offer because all of these traits will work against you not with you. I have had men act or try to be someone else who they are not and some have succeed to a first date, though as soon a woman see’s the real you who comes out and you are not that person they first met and it is over in a blink of an eye. So the most potent message I can send across to you is that the man you are is powerful, more powerful than you realize so use it to work for you. Reece Clarkson is the owner of Datingcoresecrets.com, which specializes in attracting beautiful women. Here men can learn how to attract women and also understand how a woman’s mind works. click here for more details: How To Pick Up Women
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Continue Reading »How (and Who) Do Professional Women Date?
Hello Doc,For professional women (doctors, lawyers, CEOs etc) can you please tell me what is the best type of man that you’ve seen from your experience for these women to date or marry?For instance, when us ladies are out on the prowl for a nice gentleman what are some qualities to look for?Also, during married life, let’s say both husband and wife are surgeons working 100 hours a week. YIKES!!! My heart surgeon friends (who are married to each other) said they didn’t have sex for 3 months once because they didn’t really see each other when they were on call. YIKES!!!! (They definitely made up for it though. big grin. but still that’s pretty scary)What are some ways to keep the romance alive when you have two crazy careers?Maybe plot and plan times to meet up for romantic night, sex, romance, wine, flowers, candles etc?!!??!Thank You!!!====================Hello!There are a variety of men that are good choices for these women; other doctors, lawyers CEOs, as well as salespeople, entrepreneurs, artists, and even musicians. The man’s work isn’t any where near as critical as his POWER; and to be more specific it’s whatever she PERCEIVES as his power.I know that’s a little vague, but let me explain.Women want to date “up”. That is, you have an internal pre-wired need to be with someone that has greater power than you do in some important key area(s). From this power differential come safety and security which begets love.The challenge that women face as they focus on their careers is that there are fewer and fewer men with greater power than you. Eventually, your dating pool simply becomes too small and it’s much more difficult to find that partner unless you’re willing to settle. Frankly, few women today ARE willing to settle!The very best way to keep the romance and sex alive within a relationship are the following steps:1) Each partner has to get very close to and accepting of their own sexualities. For instance, one of the most common scenarios for women powerful in the workplace is to want to be submissive in the bedroom. Of course, for some women this goes against the grain of what culture is telling them to do. Thus, they fight it, suppress it and ignore it. That is a sure what to NOT be fulfilled in any relationship and will lead to the eventual death thereof.2) Become totally and completely trusting of yourself to make good decisions. The reason for this is that when you fully trust yourself, you never have to worry about trusting anyone else. That way, you can expose yourself completely within the relationship. You can get involved in not only your sexuality but someone else’s as well.3) You have to give away responsibility for your own sexual needs and completely take on your partner’s.If you do these things, every encounter with your partner becomes a powerfully charged, romantic and sexual event. Talk about keeping the sparks flying!The biggest obstacle relationships face today is that they are often “me-oriented”. We’re in them not for the benefit of the person we’re with, but for our own benefit. It’s absolutely impossible for romance to exist, let alone flourish, under that consideration.Best regards…——————————————————————Have a love, dating, relationship, sex or man/woman question? You can write to me by going to: http://beingaman.com/ask_question.asp for answers. For more information about my books, “Being a Man in a Woman’s Worldtm” (volumes I and II), and other products visit: www.beingaman.com. Check out the new BAM! TV at http://beingaman.tv.Copyright (c) 2008, Dr. Dennis W. NederAll rights reserved. Dr. Neder is known around the world as a tough, but fair relationship expert, dealing with all sorts of dating, sex and relationship issues from a man’s perspective. Having written 3 books (“Being a Man in a Woman’s World™” series) and is working on others, hundreds of articles, been on hundreds of radio and TV shows, he is funny, direct and intuitive.
Do you have a burning question that needs an answer? Are you a man that wants to better experiences with women, or a woman that wants to better understand men? To learn more, go to http://beingaman.com.Student Aid
Why Do Women Love Men?
Hey Doc, I have a question: why are women attracted to men (and not to each other)? I know what attracts me to women, women are beautiful and soft but I wonder what’s in women’s brains that make them see men as more attractive than women? I can’t imagine my self kissing another man but why do women see it as enjoyable? I asked this question to few girls before and they don’t seem to know the answer. Can you explain this? Thanks! Hello! Some of the questions I get are more of the same and I answer them. Some of them (like yours) are excellent and I can hardly wait to get to them. Thanks! Yes, this is a great question. Let me see if I can shed some light on this. There are many things to admire about women: their looks, the softness of their skin and bodies, their smell, their hair and their nurturing, giving qualities. We both agree on all of these. Most women however see these things not as sexual attractiveness, but as weakness. Therein lies your answer. There’s a lot of evolutionary sociology behind all of this and I’ll try not to bore you with much science, but consider this: you evolved to admire primarily sexual characteristics of women; things that make her look young, healthy and vibrant primarily because these are the types of characteristics that produce healthy offspring able to reproduce. Characteristics that produce unhealthy offspring died off with them because they weren’t around to reproduce! Women did the same thing, but in a different way, with a different motivation. Women; being burdened with doing most of the child raising had to naturally look for others to protect them, help them gather food and help them raise their young. They too want offspring that will be healthy and to survive into sexual adulthood. In effect, this means strength and power. Those are the most attractive qualities that women see in men. You see, just as you want healthy offspring, so do women, but we go about creating them from different motivations. Now, just as some men prefer brunettes and some prefer blonds, women have physical and emotional choices too, but they define “attractiveness” differently than you do based on this programming. To a woman, the thought of being with a powerful man creates security and safety. Women need this security in order to feel love – and loved by the way. Part of this is sexual attraction too. Women are motivated by their own genes to find men who can produce strong healthy children as sexually attractive. Aspects like kissing, cuddling, having sex, etc., are all things that build positive physical and emotional sensations in us because we are pre-wired that way. Women get emotional, physical and sexual arousal from those things that they equate with basic sexual characteristics – just like we guys do. The difference is that we need different things. You run into some confusion here however. How come women simply don’t go for the biggest, brutish types of men they can find? Simple: these guys also consume the most resources! (There are some other reasons behind this too but again, it gets pretty complicated pretty quickly!) Women view other things as “powerful” too: someone with attitude, someone with confidence, high-income earners, intelligence, men with social status, etc. These are guys that CREATE the greatest resources. Today, it’s fundamentally within the home and the culture. With our ancestors, it was the guys that went out on the hunt to bring back protein for the family at great personal risk to themselves. By the way consider that a group of individuals – even if they are all women – are “strong” too. This is why women also developed much keener communication and social skills than men did. By creating a community, women were able to provide better for their own offspring. Of course they also competed together for limited resources – food, shelter, protection – and men. This explains why so many women can be catty towards each other too. It comes from a basis of competition with each other. Now, these things are highly over-simplified, but if you consider them, you’ll get a very good idea not only of what women are looking for in men, but why they find someone you don’t think is attractive, so appealing. Best regards… —————————————————————— Have a love, dating, sex or relationship question? You can write to me or get more information about “Being a Man in a Woman’s World tm” by going to: http://BeingAMan.com. Be sure to check out the new BAM! TV at http://BeingAMan.tv. Copyright (c) 2009, Dr. Dennis W. Neder All rights reserved. Dr. Neder is known around the world as a tough, but fair relationship expert, dealing with all sorts of dating, sex and relationship issues from a man’s perspective. Having written 3 books (“Being a Man in a Woman’s World™” series) and is working on others, hundreds of articles, been on hundreds of radio and TV shows, he is funny, direct and intuitive. Do you have a burning question that needs an answer? Are you a man that wants to better experiences with women, or a woman that wants to better understand men? To learn more, go to http://beingaman.com.Best Smartphone Software
Continue Reading »How Women Can Effectively Exercise Their Political Voice
Senior women in our society have now become a potent political and economic force. The most obvious reason for this development is the rapidly increasing numbers of mature women in our society. Women are healthier now in their later years than they have ever been. They are more vigorous. For generations now, in large numbers, women have entered every aspect of the work force from the most menial positions to the professions and the executive suite. Large numbers of women are in ownership positions of everything from small businesses, companies, and assets including stocks, bones and real estate to sports teams and some of the largest corporations in America. Interestingly enough, only a few of the most major corporations in America have women as their chief executive officers or chief financial officers even today, but this is rapidly changing. Women enjoy the demographic power of sheer numbers, and economic power. With increasing levels of sophistication in the complexities of how society, not to mention bureaucracy, works, women have found their political voice. Women have become a significant force in the major political parties. Women are senators and members of the House of Representatives. They are major figures in the structure of the political parties in the Unites States. However, no woman has yet achieved the office of Vice President or President. Of course, a woman has been on a major national ticket. Although women today in our society make up an indispensable part of the armed forces, they have not, by and large, managed to rise to the top levels of the military in strategic decision making. Because of the vital role that national defense and security performs, and its interaction with geopolitics, a full role for women in the military impacts upon the political power of women. The National Security Adviser, a woman, has become the Secretary of State of the United States. She is the second woman to hold that powerful position. Women in our society today tend to live longer than men. Inheritance laws tend to allow for the free transfer of assets between the spouses when one partner dies, without taxation. These two facts alone are responsible for the substantial hold of assets by senior women on our society. Economic power gives great leverage in the creation of political power. More importantly and ominously, as Hannah Arendt pointed out, economic power without political power is an invitation for disaster. If you put a hundred dollar bill in the street without guarding it, don’t expect it to be there when you come back. It is not only important for women to exercise political power, but it is essential for their self interest and for the larger interest of society. After all, senior women are now a large and vital segment of our society. Furthermore, they have the wisdom and knowledge necessary to make the hard decisions in a calm and reasoned manner that will shape our society going into the future. This will be their true legacy to their children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren. Ronald Caplan, M.D., is an Obstetrician Gynecologist and medical author who has spent the greater part of his life studying and treating the medical conditions that impact humanity, and their relation to the evolving society in which we all live. Dr. Caplan has been a faculty member at two major Universities: Joan and Sanford I. Weill Medical College of Cornell University in New York City, and McGill University in Montreal, Canada. He has now been appointed Clinical Associate Professor Emeritus of Obstetrics and Gynecology at the Joan and Sanford I. Weill Medical College of Cornell University. Dr. Caplan is a Fellow of the American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology, a Fellow of the American College of Surgeons, and a Fellow of the Royal College of Surgeons (Canada).video bot
Continue Reading »The Truth About Sexual Power
Prostitution has been called “the world’s oldest profession”. That truth is based on a power imbalance which derives from the physical nature of human bodies. Simply put, women have an opening in their bodies that men need permission to get into and whenever permission is required for something important, the person who gets to give permission has power over the person who has to ask for permission. Furthermore, women have several other physical features that men strongly desire, while men really only have one major feature that women truly need. The result of that power imbalance is that women can almost always get some kind of sex when they want it and men cannot do the same thing. If a woman walks into a bar or club and beckons “come here” with her first finger, every man who can still stand up will jump at the opportunity. If a man were to do the same thing, the female yawn would be deafening. In ancient Greece, a classic play was written called “The Trojan Women”. It took place in the City of Troy, and at that time, all the men were warriors who were constantly leaving their wives to go off to fight in various battles in foreign lands. The Greek wives in those days did not even think about cheating on their husbands and like all women, they had powerful sexual needs but their needs could not be met because their husbands were not there to do it for them. As their sexual frustration increased to an intolerable level, they became more and more unhappy about the situation. One day the wives called a city meeting to discuss their problem and they all agreed on a very simple solution. They decided to withhold all sexual favors from their husbands until every single one of the men agreed to stop going off to war once and for all. When the husbands came home to their wives and wanted to have sex with them, they couldn’t believe the situation they were confronted with. Of course they got extremely angry and even violent about it. But every single one of the wives stuck to the agreement they had made with each other and none of them surrendered to their violent husbands. The eventual result was that the husbands caved in to the will of their wives and they all agreed to stop the wars. Too bad American women are not prepared to do the same thing. Many people believe that men have the power in this world simply because they are bigger than woman and physically stronger than women. Of course, men have always been willing to use their overwhelming physical strength to dominate and control women. But while it is generally true that men are physically stronger than women, there is an even more powerful truth behind that truth which was dramatized by “The Trojan Women”. Have you ever heard the old saying, “Behind every powerful man, there is a woman”? Hitler had Eva Braun, and even Mickey Mouse had Minnie. Exceptions to that rule are male homosexuals who achieve positions of power and a very few powerful men who never marry or have long term relationships. Ever since the beginning of recorded human history, men have found two simple solutions to their problem of intolerable sexual frustration. I don’t include happily married men who are able to maintain their marriages without ever cheating, but I am including the married men who do cheat. The vast majority of divorces are directly related to infidelity, and most of it is committed by men. One solution men found before recorded history began is rape, which they do not need permission for, and male anger over the power imbalance is certainly one of the reasons behind rape. Please don’t mistake me – I believe rape is an inexcusable violation of women’s natural human rights. The other solution for men is prostitution and it is extremely common for men to use prostitutes so that they can live out fantasies which they cannot or will not enjoy with their wives. Women discovered that they could use the power imbalance to solve a big problem for themselves, and it’s not a sexual problem. Throughout history, women were simply not allowed by men to earn money by working at a job but they could make money secretly by being prostitutes. An unspoken agreement was formed which worked for both sides and that’s the reason why prostitution has flourished in all societies even though it is almost always against the law. Nowadays women are able to earn money by using their non-sexual talents and abilities, but many women still choose to do it by renting their bodies and that’s self evident because of the great number of very intelligent prostitutes. I’m not saying that prostitution is an easy job, but historically it was the only money making job available to women. Pornography is a relatively new development in human history because it really began to flourish after the development of the Kodak camera. Prior to the invention of photographs, all that existed were drawings created by horny men who were not very good artists. Many women believe that pornography is all about degradation of women by men who are exploiting them. Betty Page, the very first photographed “pin-up girl”, would have disputed that theory from her own personal experience. Betty discovered that she was extremely turned on by being photographed in sexy poses. Men quickly discovered an almost universal desire to look at photographs of nude women. Almost immediately after Betty’s photos were published, many other women discovered the same desire in themselves and began to fantasize about being able to do the same thing that Betty did. Hugh Hefner was in the right place at the right time with the right concept, and he accumulated an enormous fortune by publishing the first mass magazine that featured beautiful nude women. Do you remember who the first centerfold was? It was Marilyn Monroe. Marilyn was already becoming a movie star and she certainly didn’t need to put herself out to the public that way. Within a very short amount of time, other pornographic magazines sprung into existence because so many men were jealous of Hefner and were attempting to do the same thing. There was never a shortage of willing female models and it’s ridiculous to believe that all of them allowed themselves to be degraded. By the late 1970’s, video production exploded and pornography moved into the new medium because it is so much more expressive than photographs can possibly be. Many female pornographic superstars were created by the new medium. Just ask Annie Sprinkes, Candy Samples, or Ushi Digart why they participated in so many of the early classic porno videos. Their answers would be the same, and Annie is actually a philosopher on the subject. Annie believes that it’s all about female self expression that results in freedom and independence from male domination. One serious problem for prostitutes has traditionally been how to get paying clients without the risk of physical danger. The newest solution to that problem is the internet. The number of women who have posted pornographic photos to the internet is beyond calculation and there are a prodigious number of prostitutes who have discovered its safe marketing power. By using the internet, many prostitutes are able to earn well over $100,000 per year and they don’t even have to accept a client who does not physically attract them. Talk about sexual power! There are countless personal web sites where women are collecting clients like Japanese fishermen who drag mile long nets through the ocean picking up every single fish who are caught by the net (net pun intended). I rest my case. (in case I ever get some rest about all this) Peter Cross is a Web Master who was among the first to put music on the Internet in a downloadable format in 1996. His web site may be the largest music artist web site on the Internet. You can find this article at: The Truth About Sexual Power and his home page at: Rock and Roll with an Immortal Soul where his copyright is displayed at the bottom of the page.Solar Panel
Continue Reading »The Power of Honesty With Women
This is something that will either make you or break you with women. If you want to be that mature man in your life then honesty is the fastest way to get there. You must be honest with yourself first and know what it is that you want and the reasons you want it and then be honest with women. The goal is not to hurt a woman’s feelings and why would you want to do this because it will in the end, cause more problems for you that NEVER had to be there in the first place.
I believe there are two types of honesty that you can convey. One is honesty seeking a reaction or approval from someone else and the other honesty is being honest with you and not seeking a reaction from anyone else and being GENUINE.
When you are honest with women and do not expect a reaction you are being a man, you are not being a wuss and hoping that the woman is going to say what you want to hear. Women will respect you so much more if you are honest with them.
If you want to enjoy your single life and have fun then set your rules and boundaries at the start and let the woman know so that if she knows where she stands. By being honest to women it conveys all the right signals. It shows her that you know what you want, which most men don’t know what it is they want, they go into a relationship for the wrong reasons.
Many men are scared to tell the truth because they think it is wrong or it’s going to scare the woman away. The more you lie to women the more problems you are causing in the relationship, it confuses me so much to why men lie to woman when it is going to result in causing more pain than pleasure.
Just so you know as men we suck as lying, women are much better liars than us as men so don’t even try unless you want to get caught out. Men come up with reasons of I am going to lie to protect the woman from getting hurt but they are hurting the woman and themselves more than just being honest. It is such a simple concept, we have all been brought up to not lie and telling the truth is the best policy thus not many people listen. I know for myself being honest with women and not seeking a reaction out of them has conveyed me as being a male that “get’s it.”
What happens if you lie? A problem occurs and it eats away at both people until it gets to a boiling point and someone says something but instead of saying something when they should have they explode because it has turned into a big monster.
If you ask anyone, they would rather be told the truth then lied to, wouldn’t you? So be honest as a man, say what it is you want to say, set your rules and boundaries up at the start. The last thing I want to say is use with your head before your emotions always otherwise they will get you into trouble. Ignite is the owner of Datingcoresecrets.com, which specializes in attracting women. Here men can learn how to attract women and also understand how a woman’s mind works. Go here for more details: http://www.datingcoresecrets.comswarovski crystals
Continue Reading »Why is Honesty Important With Women?
This is something that will either make you or break you with women. If you want to be that mature man in your life then honesty is the fastest way to get there. You must be honest with yourself first and know what it is that you want and the reasons you want it and then be honest with women. The goal is not to hurt a woman’s feelings and why would you want to do this because it will in the end, cause more problems for you that NEVER had to be there in the first place.
I believe there are two types of honesty that you can convey. One is honesty seeking a reaction or approval from someone else and the other honesty is being honest with you and not seeking a reaction from anyone else and being GENUINE.
When you are honest with women and do not expect a reaction you are being a man, you are not being a wuss and hoping that the woman is going to say what you want to hear. Women will respect you so much more if you are honest with them.
If you want to enjoy your single life and have fun then set your rules and boundaries at the start and let the woman know so that if she knows where she stands. By being honest to women it conveys all the right signals. It shows her that you know what you want, which most men don’t know what it is they want, they go into a relationship for the wrong reasons.
Many men are scared to tell the truth because they think it is wrong or it’s going to scare the woman away. The more you lie to women the more problems you are causing in the relationship, it confuses me so much to why men lie to woman when it is going to result in causing more pain than pleasure.
Just so you know as men we suck as lying, women are much better liars than us as men so don’t even try unless you want to get caught out. Men come up with reasons of I am going to lie to protect the woman from getting hurt but they are hurting the woman and themselves more than just being honest. It is such a simple concept, we have all been brought up to not lie and telling the truth is the best policy thus not many people listen. I know for myself being honest with women and not seeking a reaction out of them has conveyed me as being a male that “get’s it.”
What happens if you lie? A problem occurs and it eats away at both people until it gets to a boiling point and someone says something but instead of saying something when they should have they explode because it has turned into a big monster.
If you ask anyone, they would rather be told the truth then lied to, wouldn’t you? So be honest as a man, say what it is you want to say, set your rules and boundaries up at the start. The last thing I want to say is use with your head before your emotions always otherwise they will get you into trouble.
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