LIFE GOAL

Yes,you can attain your life goal!

You can attain your life-goal no matter what your present circumstances are.If you have a high life-goal and a low beginning -thats good. Thats good?Why? Because people who must overcome difficulties have more need and more motivation to try harder . Psychologists call this “over-compensation”,which simbly means “extar trying ” or trying harder in order to overcome difficulties. J.Paul Getty,who is a billionaire (equal to 1,000 millionaires),says that the secret of success is just two wards:TRY HARDER! Any one ,anywhere,can try harder. The greater your difficulties,the harder you need to try to overcome them.And ,the harder you try,the more you succeed!

Any one ,anywhere,can try harder. The greater your difficulties,the harder you need to try to overcome them.And ,the harder you try,the more you succeed! If you want to attain your goal earnestly enough to try harder…and try harder…and try harder. SUCCESSSUCCESS METHODS

1. Attain your life-goal,whatever it is

2. Become the person you want to be!

3. Get WHATEVER you want!

4. Succed with PEOPLE-PROBLEM!

5. manage and ,if it is neccessary,control PROBLEM-PEOPLE!

6. Manage and control YOURSELF so that you can successfully Master ANY personal problems!

7. Achive and maintain INNERPEACE so that you will be at peace with yourself and with your fellow men!

8. You can harvest ONLY what you plant

*If you think success,you will be successful

*If you think goodwill,you will atleast goodwill

*If you think friendship,you will attract friends

*If you think love,you will be loved

9.You to control your life and determine your future!

10.You MUST GUIDE YOUR LIFE WITH MENTAL PICTURES! SELF CONTROL

There is no excuse for unjustified anger;it can bring about your downfall.Wait and be patient,and later you will be glad you did.keep quiet until the right time to speak,and you will gain a reputation for good sense. Don’t be quick to speak or lazy and neglight in your work.Don’t act like a lion at home or be suspicious of your servents .dont stick out your hand to get somthing if you’re going to be tightfisted when the time comes to pay it back.1.LOOSE TALK:

Avoid idle talk,and you will avoid a lot of trouble.Never repeat what you hear,and you will have no regrets.Don’t tell it to your friends or your enemies unless it would be sinful to keep it to yourself.Whoever hears you will take note of it,and sooner or later will hate you for it.Have you heard a rumour?Let it die with you.Be brave! It wont make you explode.A foolish person trying to keep a secret suffers like a women in labour.Whenever he hears a secret,its like an arrow stuck in this leg.if you hear that a friend has done somthing wrong ,ask him about it.Maybe he didn’t say it.if he did,he won’t say it again .if you hear somthing that makes you angry with your threaten him.Leave the matter to the Law of the Most High. 2.KNOWING WHEN TO TALK:

Some people are thought to be wish because they don’t talk much;others are disliked because they talk too much.Some people keep quiet because they don’t have anything to say;others keep quiet because they know the right time to speak.A wise person will not speak until the right moment ,but a bragging fool doesn’t know when that time is .No one can stand a person who talks too long and will not give others a chance to speak. 3.INAPPROPRIATE TALK:

Nobody take as proverb seriously when some fool quotes it at the wrong time.you can lose all your self-respect by being reluctant to speak up in the presence of stupidity.if you promise a friend somthing because you are too bashful to say no,you’re making an enemy needlessly.Lying is an ugly blot on a person ’s character,but ignorant people do it all the time.A thief is better than a habitual liar,but both are headed for ruin.A liar has no honour .He lives in constant disgrace.4.BEHAVIOUR AT DINNER PARTIES

When you sit down at a fancy banquet,don’t say,”LOOK at all that food!”It is impolite to have a greedy eye;remember that.Nothing in creation is greedier than the eye;that is why it sheads tears so often.Don’t reach out for everything you see,and don’t elbow people out of the way to get.Be considerate of the other people at the table and treat them the way you want to be treated.When you get your food ,eat it like a human being.Don’t smack your lips and slurp;nobody can stand that.It’s good manners to be the first to stop eating;stuffing yourself is offensive.If there are many people present,don’t try to be the first to be served.A little bit is plenty for anyone with good manner.Besides,you won’t be short of breath when you go to bed.People who eat too much get stomachache and cannot sleep.If you don’t overeat,you can get a good night’s sleep and wake up early the next morning feeling fine.But if you do get a stomachache from eating to much,go off and vomit and you will feel better.Hello friends if you listen to what i am saying and put it into practice,one of these days,you will thank me for it.Be moderate in everything you do,and you will never be sick.BODY LANGUAGEEYE SIGNALS 1.THE BUSINESS:

When having discussions on a business level,imagin that there is a triangle on the other person’s forehead.By keeping your gaze directed at this area ,you create a serious atmosphere and the other person senses that you mean business.provided that your gaze does not drop below the level of other person’s eyes,you are able to maintain control of the interaction.2.THE SOCIAL GAZE:

When the gaze drops below the orther person’s eye level,a social atmosphere develops.Experiments into gazing reveal that during social encounters the gazer’s eyes also look in a triangular area on the other person’s face,in the case between the eyes and the mouth. 3.THE INTIMATE GAZE:

The gaze is across the eyes and below the chin to other parts of the person’s body.In close encounters it is triangular body.In close encounters its the triangular area between the eyes and the chest or breasts and for distant gazing from the eyes to the crotch.Men and Women use this gaze to show interest in each other and those who are interested will return the gaze. Binisten, www.thesevenhelpers.comBadminton Equipment

So you want to know why women cheat? Well get ready because it’s rather simple. Have you ever had a relationship where everything is perfect, you can’t wait to see that person when you get home from work, you can’t stop thinking about them during the day and you just can’t get enough?

Have you noticed that the start of the relationship is where the magic tends to happen, where it is surprising and spontaneous and where you make that extra effort? Does it not make sense that 20 years from now your relationship with your girlfriend or wife will be stronger and not worse?

I have been guilty of doing what I am just about to tell you, I have met a woman and put all this energy and time into it to come to the realisation that I have done what I have to do and became, yep you guessed it comfortable.

It happens with friends too. Have you ever met a new group of friends and spent this first month with every spare moment you had until it just started to die because nobody made the effort anymore?

You must NEVER get comfortable in a relationship, you want to always be experiencing new events and building attraction.

Do you know anyone who has cheated on their husband or boyfriend? Have you asked them why? The main reasons I believe women cheat on men is simple because the guy gives her everything she wants, lets her lead the relationship and is no man but a boy.

Men who don’t put the time and energy in to make that spark with the women, the men who can’t say no to a woman, men who don’t make their own decisions for their own lives, men who seek approval from women, men who drop all of their plans to please the woman.

So why the hell would these women stay with these men if they don’t really want to be with them in the first place? That’s another simple answer, I believe that their security is there and they know they can come back and there guy will be there for them not asking any questions because they are too scared to lose them and they will support and care for them in the long term.

The reason women go to another man is number 1, he is a man and because they simply don’t feel that much attraction to their partners. Women want things they cannot have, its like anything that is scarce in life. Women want a man to say no to them, a CHALLENGE. If there is no challenge then its boring and there is no prize at the end of it.

So then how do you get it back if you lost the connection? Start as if you just met her and build attraction and anticipation. Find out what her needs are and be fun and playful but create that spark again in the relationship. There is a famous saying “what you resist persists.” So resist her at times make her work for it, don’t just give it up. Don’t women do this ALL the time to you? So it is only fair to play the game too.

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Wishing you great success friend

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People have taken to online dating like a duck takes to water…because it works…or, at least, it can work. Women are, in general, terrified of meeting a man that she has been chatting with online. All they have heard about are the scary things that can happen…and, I must say, they have a right to be careful to the extreme. That’s not only wise but vital. So what’s a nice guy to do? You aren’t a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for “the” girl for you.

You must be patient. Don’t press her for personal information like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Don’t try to rush her into meeting face-to-face. She will think you are desperate or a pervert. Patience. Patience. Patience.

Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit. Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and there you are back at square one.

A picture really is worth a thousand words. Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just head shots. If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn’t just see your head.

Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she bring a friend with her. After all, you have nothing to hide. You’ve told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a lot of pictures of you. The only thing left is to make her feel safe meeting you. Article by Oscar, creator of Adult Sexy Friends – Interactive Online Dating and Adult Personals.
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I cannot emphasize enough how important it is to have female friends in your life, attractive female friends that you find attractive. If you want to build an empire of women in your life than getting female friends is the quickest way to doing so.

The more female friends you have the more you meet and in turn the more you date. You sometimes need to say to yourself ok these women are just going to be friends AND STICK by what you say to yourself. Most women don’t believe men can be their friends because they all think that all men are the same. They don’t know any better, it’s what they have experienced their whole lives with men. It’s the same story over and over again. So when they actually find a man that wants to be a friend, yes it is a big thing for them.

By having female friends they in turn BRAG about you to all of their friends on how great you are, so you are already half way there and you don’t even need to do ANYTHING. They can be your ultimate wing man in situations and they will also introduce you to their female friends. They can make female friends a lot easier than you can and a lot quicker. It makes sense that women can relate a lot better than men can relate to women.

I am not saying to use women I am just suggesting how valuable they can be in the dating world. When a woman knows you are her friend and that’s all you want from her then they can be the most loyal friends you can have. They will do anything for you and can’t really stab you on the back like a guy friend can.

When you walk into a club with females instead of males, you automatically get seen by other females as something important. You are labeled as “different,” there must be something good about this guy if he is around attractive women. A lot of the time women will approach you and if they don’t, when you approach them they are a lot more open to a conversation with you, than if you are in a circle of men and tried to approach.

The more female friends you have the better your communication skills become with women. The more in tune you become and know what to say, when to say it to woman you are trying to attract. If you become close friends with women, it is a completely different world. You better be prepared to hear about their sex life and a lot of personal information about the individual. They tend to be more open with their male best friends, so just know it is coming.

The more female friends you have the more scarce you seem to other women and the more they are attracted to you. It makes sense that the more socially connected you are, that the higher your status is in life and once again the more women are attracted to you.

I know for myself that I got sick and tired of men keep winging about women and always complaining and fighting with their mates over who has who. I have one best friend as a male and the rest of my friends are women. Now I did not go out and plan and say to myself ok, you are going to have barely any guy friends and the rest of your friends are going to be females. NO I went out and met females and overtime I built an empire of women which now works to my advantage. Ignite is the owner of Datingcoresecrets.com, which specializes in attracting women. Here men can learn how to attract women and also understand how a woman’s mind works. Go here for more details: http://www.datingcoresecrets.com

When recent polls asked what men and women would most like in
their relationship, the resounding response was happiness. Is
your love relationship a happy one? If it is not, then what
exactly is a happy love relationship? This article tries to
answer this pressing question. It will teach you how you can be
guaranteed that your love relationship will bring you happiness. As relationship advisor, I often hear men and women say they are
happy with their love life. Behind closed doors, however, the
same people who say they are happy with their love life admit
that they are not. For many years, I have heard people say that
although they are unhappy with what they have, it is better than
being alone. Women, in particular, say it is too difficult to
find a good man. Certain steps are required to find the love relationship that
will make you and your partner happy. Here are five simple steps
to help you find the happiness that eludes you. Step 1. Acknowledge that you have not been successful at
relationship. This is key, because admitting that something is
not right automatically programs your brain to bring about
change. Denial, on the other hand, will keep you making excuses. Step 2. When you have acknowledged the truth, you are now ready
to finally succeed. Begin by finding love in the right places.
What I mean here is a change of habit. I have put some of my
clients through this process, and the result has been very
rewarding for them. It also brought me much joy to know that
somehow I have helped them find happiness. Step 3. Seek your love relationship with the right person, your
twin soul or what I call your soulmate. Here is why. Twin souls
are two people who were created for and with each other in mind.
They are parts of each other. This is why people may feel alone
even if they are in a love relationship if it is not with their
soulmates. Your soulmate was created by a higher power, and it is only this
higher power who can lead you to the person. Acknowledging this
is a very important part of recognizing your soulmate. Because
if a higher power created a twin soul for you the same higher
power has created a way to bring the two of you together. This
is so very important, I cannot stress it enough. I have gone
through the process myself and know this from personal
experience. So you have met a love interest, are dating or even
in a relationship. You must do your part to recognize if you are
each others soulmate or not. After that the next step, step 4 is
the most important part of the process if you want assurance
that you and your love interest were created for each other and
that the relationship will work. Step 4. Wait for a confirmation. When two people meet, the only
way they can know they are soulmates is by receiving a
confirmation. Confirmation comes in a variety of ways. Because
soulmates were created for each other by a higher power, the
same higher power will give you a confirmation. To make this
point clear, I will ask you to see yourself as a mother. You
have several cups in your cupboard. You ask your child to bring
you a tea cup. Your child goes into the cupboard, where there
are many different kinds of cups. The child takes one cup and
brings it to you. You, the mother, will know whether your child
has brought you the right cup. You then confirm the child’s
success by letting the child know the cup is the right or wrong
one. Likewise, your higher power will let you know if your man
or woman is the right one. Step 5. Finally, you must do your part. A higher power created a
soulmate for you and will lead you to your soulmate and give you
a confirmation when the two of you meet. The rest is up to you.
It is important to understand that it is up to you to accept or
not accept your soulmate. It is up to you to date, to meet
people, and so on. And no matter what you may think, there are
simple and effective ways of meeting the right person. Let me draw upon the story of Adam and Eve to make a final
point. When they were created for each other, after partaking of
the fruit of the tree, Adam was displeased with Eve. Adam had
the option of not accepting Eve as his twin soul, but Eve told
Adam that, if he did not accept her, he would be alone. The
secret here is to understand the word alone. Without your
soulmate’s love, you will feel alone regardless of how handsome,
beautiful, rich or famous you or your lover is. Understanding
this is very important, because it will put you in the right
frame of mind to go about your love life in the right way. Good
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Women rule supreme as they hold the planet’s two trump cards.

Women hold the key which locks and unlocks men at will. Women hold the key to the world’s promiscuity and crime. Are women to blame? Or are men just weaklings?

The greatest of all competitive commodities, sex and money are controlled by women.

Women hold the purse strings and control your sex life. You say not? What do you think might happen if the men decide where and how to spend the money and where to have sex?

Eighty percent or more of the entire jail population are inside because of these two women dominated commodities sex and money. Women rule both, they hold the key.

If women ruled our planet would these commodities be shared more equitably?

Don’t call for my castration please; I am merely focussing opinion at that which is generally acknowledged amongst society at large, and I dare say if it is not, let’s wake up. Having admitted my alegiance to this thought, how can I possibly love women?

Are women truly from Venus?

Here are some general facts (or opinions) about women. Many men will deny their agreement in public; but in their inner bosom there is no denial. After all the fact are there for all to see.

• Gentlemen prefer blondes

• Brunettes start blonde jokes to discredit blonds, because gentlemen prefer blondes.

• Women travel 10km to save $0.50 on a product on special, but it costs $5.00 in gasoline to get there.

• Women will buy something not because they need it, but because it is a bargain.

• Women suffragettes burnt their bra because they wanted to be like men.

• Women believe that the world would be a better place if they were the rulers of this planet. (I think they should be given the opportunity , men have cocked it up good and proper, can’t get any worse.)

• Make love not war is a better motto than kill for oil.

• Women control about 80% of the spending power of a household, if not more. Thus they control the bulk of the general publics’ spend.

• Women to a large extent wear slacks, jeans and the like. Are they aiming to proof a point? (like who wears the pants) I’m sure there will be lots of denials. Generally men prefer the minni-skirt.

• Women dress sexily to show off their bodies, when men take notice they get reported for sexual harassment.

• Woman was the original temptress of the world, (remember the apple?) Nothing has changed today. Men get tempted and condemned for it.

• Women allow their husbands to be the men of the house as long as it is with their approval, and preferably not to frequently.

• Women spend what men work for. (Ooops, that’s a little controversial)

• Women control the greatest crime causes in the world, money and sex.

If a census were to be taken at the country’s jails I have no doubt that 80% or more of the inmates’ crimes were related to one of the two. Women-sex, or money, or possibly both of the above factors.

A weapon, which is often used by women in defence of being called the weaker sex, is the observation that Our Lord first created men and than noticed some serious flaws, so to perfect his creation He made women. You know, I think some women truly believe this.

There are no doubt many more general observations about women one could make, but this suffices, I have made the point, which demonstrates the general consensus amongst men when they talk away from women ears.

Most men will quietly admit to most of the women fads as enumerated. I wonder how many men will have the guts to write and agree with me. I’ve given the address at the foot of the article. Come on, don’t leave me in this alone, all men and women have opinions on this subject.

No wonder some great author said that women are aliens from Venus.

The other side of the coin

• Women must often have double the qualification for the same job as men and then they still get paid less because they are female. Is this just? Are they short of some sort of inherent ability although they have more academic qualifications? Or are men hell bent on keeping them bare foot and pregnant in the kitchen?

• Women are more loyal employees than men.

• Women can multi task better then men.

• Women are great to hand the screaming baby to.

• Women are more loyal than men.

• Women cope better with a crisis than men.

There is an under current amongst women, complaining that nowadays men have the headaches, what happened? I’ll tell you.

Men are now 50% housewife now that women are in full time employ. Women please take note now that you are in full day employ and expect the husbands to do 50% of the motherly duties, nothing against that, but please, we must change nappies and get up at 2 am to warm the babies bottle etc., Why should we not be entitled to the occasional head ache. In fact, the whole system is upside down, look at your teenage daughter, at the age of 14 or 15 they are chasing boys. Should not the men be the hunter? I think so. Look at nature the way God created it. Males are the pursuers, but note, only successful if the women gives permission. Women are in control.

What happened to the “Barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen” type of women? What has changed? I’ll tell you what has changed, greed, we all want bigger homes, better cars etc. It’s the Keeping up with the Joneses that is the problem, so the wives have had to become more economically active. I’m not saying I liked women better when barefoot etc, no, I’m asking a question, who has the answer?

Men, your world is changing Women are taking over. In fact they will more than likely shortly rule America. Who cares? They can not do any worse than men. Or can they? Is Venus in the same state of chaos as planet earth?

Here is some tangible proof that women are widely recognised as the temptresses of the world as ever they were. If women are not, why does a manufacturer of great Italian vehicles have to have a scantily clothed, sexy women present at their exhibit at the Earls Court Motor Show, right on the beautiful rotating platform? Because women are a star attraction, it thus brings the men, and on the off chance they may even notice the car. Women, remain ever the temptress, and this fact is well exploited by the emperors of commerce. She tempts men, she draws them closer to come and look. (At what?)

I’ve said enough, or just about. Men, do you know that the greatest slice of internet money is taken home by women? (I will have to get my wife operative at this). I wonder why, if in commerce they are remunerated at a lesser level for similar professions? It appears that they are taking over; after all, the internet is the world’s largest market place. It is the only place I know where you often do not know with whom you are transacting. Does this indicate that women are discriminated against when because of the misnomer, “weaker sex?”

Internet seems the only real equitable place we do not know or determine if the GURU is a woman, if the women are, they earn the same and more than the male, could the reason be that here gender is obscured? Shoo, makes you think, doesn’t it?

The power of temptation has belonged to the women since the Garden of Eden. Today the world still upholds women as the ultimate temptress hence the nudity in advertising. It is held that a half naked feminine torso if shaped according to the fads of the male world will attract attention, and it does. Some of the most obscure products use women in their advertising to get their product noticed. You see, women are good for everything. Are men just as versatile?

For men danger of being swamped by women lurks around every corner, or is it perhaps good fortune lurking? I can name a few women who were colossus in this world during my time, like British Maggie or Jewish Golda. I am not very fond of the worlds idle parasites who ride the tjooka tjooka train of wealth like the Dutch queen and the British queen etc. Cost me taxes for no return.

Are we men about to be relieved of all the responsibilities of this planet? Women are very capable of earning big money. If women as a species suddenly realise their potential they will then rule, the purse and the bedroom. Thing are looking bleak for the strongest sex, what is left for us?

Men, I ask, do we still have a roll to play? Women no longer need us, sex is also pleasurably achievable without the male around, in fact many claims of greater erotic pleasure are contributed to mechanical bedroom equipment. Are we the stronger sex? May be physically, but mentally? We are lorded over by women in all the important facets of life, certainly the two deemed most important. Women rule supreme. I say thank heaven they do not seem to have cottoned on to this fact as yet, or is coertion already exerting women dominance to allow men favours? However, it is a fact of life; sex and money are the woman’s domain.

Now then if this be so should they not shoulder the blame for modern society’s promiscuity and money greed, for both of which society steal murder and plunder. Does it mean that men have been weaklings since Eve tempted Adam?

Are women running our lives or are women running out of control?

I’d like a few opinions, I sure as hell don’t know where I am on or off with this women issue. Do we respect the species which clearly hold the key to our survival? Do we stand by and let women rule the world? Come on, let me have some input; don’t let the world believe that only the author thinks like this.I have left a facility for sharing your view at the foot of the page

I look forward to a few answers, hopefully dispersed by some good humour. No antagonism please, women live on this planet also, not only Venus. Venus is apparently full up. We are not looking to make war with women; I’d rather make love with women.

Here are a few internet facts on women.

Keyword search on Women, Guess what was tops? Naked women 35000 hits a day Keyword search on Men, Guess what was tops here? It was naked men, but significantly less in number at 12000 per day.

Next I typed in Women Money I got 178 daily searches on this Then I typed in Men Money and got 15 daily searches. An interesting bit of information is the keyword phrase Women Wrestle Men for Money, 165000 pages,

Check it on google.

So 3 question remain unanswered

• Will this be a better world if the women rule?

• Are women who definitely rule money and sex responsible for the worlds promiscuity and crime?

• Would the jails be only quarter as full if the two most powerful urges of human kind were equally shared emotionally?

I would like to hear from those of you who have been to the proverbial woman’s haven Venus. Is better place than planet earth because it is held that women rule there?

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Clothing I spoke with one lady who said she was really fussy about certain things. The main thing with her was the shoes a guy wears. Now I would never have guessed this one, but she says that if a guys shoes aren’t up to scratch then it is a big turn off. Luckily enough I knew about this before I met her. My shoes are not usually well polished. In fact I wear sneakers a great deal of the time. Therefore, when speaking to a potential date on the phone, you might like to slip in a question such as “How do you like your guys dressed? Casual? Smart?” Hygiene Have a bath or shower before you go out! Sure, I don’t need to tell you this but let me remind you just in case! Clean your teeth! Appear as smart as you can with your personal hygiene and look clean. Money, Looks and Power Certain traits attract women. It is the law of the jungle out there and there is a pecking order. Some people have inherent natural advantages such as exceptionally good looks. Others have advantages that they have earned such as power or money. Let’s examine what women seek in these areas. Money Money, lots of it, is attractive to women. This is a generalisation as some women are far less influenced by money than others. Having said that, I know of several women who say, “Money isn’t important to me.” Next minute they’re describing some really nice guy they’ve met adding the words “and he’s rich!” to the end of the conversation. Now if that isn’t proof positive of their interest in someone with money then I don’t know what else is. But lets look at some recent research results. There were a group of males who were graded for their attractiveness. A photograph of each was taken and a fictitious job title attached to each. These photographs were then shown to a large sample of women who were asked to rate the physical attractiveness of each male. Next, each male had a different job title attached to his picture and they were rated for attractiveness again. What the researchers found was that the males were rated as significantly more physically attractive when given a lucrative job title than when given a less lucrative job title. For example, a guy may get a 7/10 if labelled as a lawyer, yet only a 4/10 if they were told he was a janitor. So how can we use this knowledge to our advantage? Here’s how… #1: Make your job title sound attractive – if you clear trash in the local park, tell them you “take care” of the local parks. As the research shows, the better the perception of your job title, the more physically attractive they will find you. If it is any consolation, I find this hard to believe but the researchers have done their work and uncovered this truth. #2: Don’t talk about debts – your date just doesn’t need to know at this stage. There are plenty of other topics of conversation other than your mounting list of credit cards. #3: Tell them you are ambitious or quite ambitious – women find ambition an attractive trait as it hints at security. Tell them you have no ambition and they’ll think as a couple you will always be struggling financially. Looks The beautiful people. The 10 out of 10’s. Those individuals who are blessed with exceptionally good looks. We all know who they are and luckily for them, they get the pick of the bunch – particularly the women. But what about the rest of us? How can we find an attractive partner when faced with this kind of competition? The good news is that with women, looks aren’t everything. Current research shows that men are much more likely to put looks first than women – with the exception of the stunning. Researchers have found that stunning looking women are more likely to look for a stunning partner to help perpetuate their good looks from one generation to another. Whereas less attractive women are more likely to stress loyalty as the most important thing to them, as they want to keep a mate as long as possible. Since the truly stunning are few and far between, this means the door is left wide open for us guys to find an attractive mate regardless of our looks. The mosaic of your personality has lots to offer and by putting your best side forward, you can attract a woman far above your natural pecking order in the looks department. Power Power is sexy. If you have it, then flaunt it because it is a proven persuader. History is littered with examples of powerful men being magnets for the opposite sex. It gives a person the aura of having qualities that perhaps they might not possess, such is the lure of this sought after possession. Money can give you power. So can looks. But there are other and they all have an effect. Here are the main types of power: Money This has already been discussed and it can be one of the strongest. Authoritarian Who hasn’t heard of a woman being attracted to a man in uniform? Yes, uniforms do look smart but then so do other forms of dress. One subconscious reason for the allure of uniform is its implied authority. Police officers, the army, doctors and other uniformed men have authority over others in certain situations. A police officer can be in control on the street as a doctor can be in the hospital. Each has power in their own domain, but not necessarily any outside of it. This type of power is contextual. In other words, you can only exert its influence when you are dressed appropriately in that context. To use authoritarian power, you need to get your date or potential girlfriend to meet you under the circumstances where you have tangible indication of having this power. An example would be for your date to meet you at the hospital while you are wearing your doctors white coat. Then just say, “I’m sorry but I’m running a bit late. Can you hang on while I get changed?” This may seem a bit far-fetched but your date will always have the image of you in your work situation. They may fantasise about you at work, if they like that particular image of you in uniform. I wouldn’t suggest you go out of your way to engineer this kind of meeting, but if the situation arises and it doesn’t take much more effort, go for it. Knowledge You can impress with knowledge as it gives you the impression of being a fountain of wisdom. It makes you seem more worldly wise, intelligent and interesting. Women find this attractive, but will quickly be turned off if you come across as a know it all. Be humble and understated, but do let them know how much you know when the situation calls for it. For example, if your date says, “Have you been to France?” then you can let them know that not only did you go to France, but you also have studied the language, like their food and so on. Don’t lie or embellish your story. Just be sincere. Self-promote your way into their mind. It will leave a favourable impression. I remember going back to a girl’s place on a date some years back. She had a picture on the wall that I recognised as Leonardo da Vinci’s. By a stroke of luck, I had read a magazine article all about the man that very week. I knew nothing about art but I reeled off fact after fact about the man, how he studied the use of shadow in his paintings and that he used to be a comedian amongst other things. She was amazed! I went up in her estimation ten fold and she kept on about how nice it was to meet someone so cultured! I avoided talking about art from then on or she would have known I knew practically nothing about the subject. Let me just say that my date went very well that night! Looks This has already been discussed. Physical If you are stronger than another guy or person, you have physical power over them. In today’s society, you cannot coerce anyone physically. However, it can be intimidating if you are physically much stronger than another guy. But when it comes to dating, you have to engineer the situation before you can exert your physical prowess as a dating advantage. The circumstances where you may prevail would be where you are required to use this strength, such as down the beech playing ball, in the gym or helping out around the house doing tasks that require strength. Your advantages are then more apparent and you may be admired for your physical abilities. Yair
Adult dating and tips Yair Czitrom is the owner and webmaster of http://www.onenightstandsex.com/ – An experienced online dater that took his dating knowledge and web skills as a dater and as an IT pro to help other fun seekers in today’s cyber world. He is an expert writer on ezinearticles.com and searchwarp.com asap travel

I am Queen Tiye, while I sleep I channel from the unseen on various subjects that will benefit the world at large, has women issues has flowed so much from the channel, I have decided to write this post on how important women are, the status of women, and how men can change and understand how to relate to women based on the truth from the channel, and the lack of knowledge and understanding that men have in relation to the earth which is the women. The writing says: “Oh ye divine Wo (Women) of the earth, producer of nations, egg of the womb, mother of justice, self taught Al Lats. (Godess) Understand who you are, for your wholesome beings can come together and demonstrate changes to your earth that is controlled by man”. Lets begin by referring to John Grays’s book “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus” It must be understood to mean men are from Mars that comes from the power within Venus. Venus, being where women come from based on the title of the book. It must be also said women are the most powerful beings and should not be seen has only has a cook, a housewife or just another woman as some men say “I ask” how Important is women? Allow me to answer. A WOMEN is the earth, she is the strength, she is the height of earth power, the oracle is the Woman, a comforter, first teachers of mankind, supreme caress and nurturers of the world, the holistic thinkers, and sensitive problem solvers, unacknowledged mangers, the heart of the family, the foundation and builder of nations.  The women is the tree of life, she is the Goddess of earth, the Queen of the human race, and is as important as her womb, that sacred place where you and I were conceived. The women is the womb that carries the golden egg, you. The divine peace makers are the women. “According to Malcolm X a nation will rise no higher than its Women”Therefore when women are down trodden and made subjugeted and submissive the nation will never excel it will raise  no higher then its women. The Writing says: “Men I tell you respect your first home for that home gave life, comfort and warmth unto you. Within that warmth you fed from the wo’s power and strength that gave you freedom. When freedom restored upon you more strength and power was taken to enrich you. Ye man I tell you, just as your protection was in the home from the beginning with no disturbances, and respected by the wo so you must respect another’s home when you mature. For the home or homes you disrespect will be the home or homes of yours. So man enter homes with grace and passion and when you do nurture it for if the home nurtured you not you would have no home to enter. I say El Roi. He who respects his first home respects himself. He, who respects himself, respects I who gave life unto himself. Tiye teach and spread my words”. Women you are the earth, the tree of life, you are not approaching the twenty first century you are in it, you need not expose yourself in the garments you wear, or feel unflattered by what you don’t wear, be graciously recognized to the earth. For the earth is known, the trees are known, you are known, for you are women. Allow the men to respect their first home; for you nurture and protected it before the spec of consciousness entered upon that home, you waited patiently for the external breath before it leaves the home. Unite and command respect for our first home, command respect for our beings. Within your thought is the will, and the will carries forward the thought, which brings manifestation unto our self or man. Seed brings forth fruit, and the fruit came from the seed that grows, if it’s nurtured well. The man is a producer not a carrier he has no honey home to nurture the seeds he plants, he has no honey home to protect that seed that grows, and he has no honey home to secure that spec of consciousness within. He has no inner blanket to preserve and nurture that which you toiled for. The Writing says: “Man, listen to my words. The world is not built on the edge of a cliff; the world is the womb of a wo. The strength of the world is the power of a wo. Man you are the eggs from the womb of a wo. All your power and strength is from the womb of a wo. The wo is the power of your world. Man feels not that you are powerful because of fame, riches or speeches. For the womb of the wo is more powerful than your lips, more powerful than the seed or seeds you sow. The womb carries more strength than your speeches, riches or power. The womb of a wo is the protector of your world Today Yesterday and times to come. Man, I tell you I am more powerful than man. You are not more powerful than the womb for the human race is built from the eggs of her womb. Tiye teach them, respect the womb for the womb respects all, and is the protector for all. Amen”. Women have you ever wondered, why. Once a man is nurtured in the womb, and push out into the world, he his constantly trying to find is way back in. He seeks bliss within the comfort he as loss, and happiness outside the respect he gives. The controller is you, the protector of self. This brings me to the question of some women, who ask, what is the true meaning of love? Understanding the true meaning of love is, to understand self. Love begins with self. Love is a strong positive and emotional regard and affection to one self. Love is identifying your inner self, love, is your inner and outer reflection, love is the deep affection and beauty to your self. It’s the appreciation of you. Love is from your heart charka. (Pronounce shakra) Love is the principle of the entire universe it’s the basis of all created forms and creative energy that is love. It is the highest, deepest, and most powerful state of consciousness. Love is acknowledging listening, and not extraordinary. Love virtually overcomes everything. Only when you understand the laws and principals of love, will love steer back at you. To receive and give Knowing the laws and principals of love will allows you to respect your self more. Therefore you would command respect by not saying a word. The Writing Says: “Tiye teach the wo that they are the earth, for when they are seeded they bring back life to the earth. Let man fear not to crouch, cower or bow and bend to the wo for in his time of need he submits to receive. For the strength of a man comes from the womb of a wo and that strength becomes weakness at that moment when the wo demonstrates power for the seed or seeds he sows is captured by the strength, and the power of the wo. The power is in the strength of the womb and he now has no control. Let man see the wo as Al Lat. Man I tell you, treat a wo outside her womb as you would treat her inside. For the comfort you receive inside is shorter than that you receive outside. Man to defile the earth, wo, is a sin. The wo is the earth. Listen to My words. Let it not be told otherwise. I am that I am. Tiye teach.” If one connects to the very essence of existence, sustains and nourishes the essence of our being, connect back to that spec of consciousness, capture the dimensions outside of earth, there you will find, the truth of your being, and the truth will take you on the journey to knowledge, knowledge will allow you to understand the earth, the earth will bring you back to the women, the womb from which you became. Tiye. Following a Near Death Experience Queen Tiye was able to channel messages from the ‘Unseen’. More ‘The Writings’ channelled by Queen Tiye can be found at Wisdom Beyond Beings. Queen Tiye also acquired the ability to see auras, amongst many other abilities. To read more about these remarkable channelled messages please spend a few minutes to browse The Writing while I sleep here. www.wisdombeyondbeings.comMovie Plots

This is something that will either make you or break you with women. If you want to be that mature man in your life then honesty is the fastest way to get there. You must be honest with yourself first and know what it is that you want and the reasons you want it and then be honest with women. The goal is not to hurt a woman’s feelings and why would you want to do this because it will in the end, cause more problems for you that NEVER had to be there in the first place.

I believe there are two types of honesty that you can convey. One is honesty seeking a reaction or approval from someone else and the other honesty is being honest with you and not seeking a reaction from anyone else and being GENUINE.

When you are honest with women and do not expect a reaction you are being a man, you are not being a wuss and hoping that the woman is going to say what you want to hear. Women will respect you so much more if you are honest with them.

If you want to enjoy your single life and have fun then set your rules and boundaries at the start and let the woman know so that if she knows where she stands. By being honest to women it conveys all the right signals. It shows her that you know what you want, which most men don’t know what it is they want, they go into a relationship for the wrong reasons.

Many men are scared to tell the truth because they think it is wrong or it’s going to scare the woman away. The more you lie to women the more problems you are causing in the relationship, it confuses me so much to why men lie to woman when it is going to result in causing more pain than pleasure.

Just so you know as men we suck as lying, women are much better liars than us as men so don’t even try unless you want to get caught out. Men come up with reasons of I am going to lie to protect the woman from getting hurt but they are hurting the woman and themselves more than just being honest. It is such a simple concept, we have all been brought up to not lie and telling the truth is the best policy thus not many people listen. I know for myself being honest with women and not seeking a reaction out of them has conveyed me as being a male that “get’s it.”

What happens if you lie? A problem occurs and it eats away at both people until it gets to a boiling point and someone says something but instead of saying something when they should have they explode because it has turned into a big monster.

If you ask anyone, they would rather be told the truth then lied to, wouldn’t you? So be honest as a man, say what it is you want to say, set your rules and boundaries up at the start. The last thing I want to say is use with your head before your emotions always otherwise they will get you into trouble. Ignite is the owner of Datingcoresecrets.com, which specializes in attracting women. Here men can learn how to attract women and also understand how a woman’s mind works. Go here for more details: http://www.datingcoresecrets.comswarovski crystals

By the passing of time, men were considered “head of the family” and being “stronger” than women. But years passed by and men started to show their so-called “feminine side”. Question is why women define these men as not good enough and reject them or even worse, hurt them? Here are some tips why women don’t like such men and how this disadvantage can be turned into an advantage: 1. Women like power Women have always been attracted by strong men, who can dominate them, always on top of things and not complaining about difficulties. Although now women changed, they are independent, there still is this wish to feel protected and they hate men who want to be pampered. So if you want respect from your girlfriend, do not complain or show you’re insecure. 2. Women like “fighters” Life it tough and men that give up when things go wrong, without trying anything to solve the problem, will definitely not be considered a potential partner by most women. No woman would like a man who lacks courage and always has a negative attitude related to any kind of difficulty. Life is a fight, isn’t it? 3. Women look for safety and commitment Maybe that’s why they hate mamma’s boys. They want protection from their man and feel that they are safe with him, so that nothing bad can happen. To become committed to a relationship is not easy if you are not a strong man, a provider of sincerity and safety. For more information, simply visit http://www.newdreamdates.com/ Marius Gherghinescu is an Online Dating expert.asap travel scarborough